How long after dating should you have the talk. But it has to be done.
I am of the school of belief which says a guy must totally want to be your boyfriend right at the beginning, for the relationship to hold any promise.
Love yourself enough…Men actually respect you more if you do!
But, you can be different.
I have no problem being rejected for that.
Your energy reeks of unworthiness.
So if a man is not excited about you at the beginning, it is likely you do not meet his basic requirments and quite unlikely that a woman can change his mind about her.
You sleep with boyfriends only.
I think the date thing is the way to go.